Few days back Dhup asked me “How did you decide to get marry
with papa”? It made me think, I paused and shared “We both liked each other and
decided to get marry”.
Dhup “If you liked each other then why you used to fight
with him earlier?”
Hmmmmmm,
Asa’s view – It fine to fight. Fine for me and Dhup also to
fight
Rat's view – You fight with people whom you love more. Anyway the
fights helped me to know myself.
My reflection
I have been working with so many people. I realized that
when I work with Rat, I have zero tolerance for him, when I work with others my
tolerance is much higher. I am exploring myself and various relationships.
3 comments:
Adding one of Pranav's remarks. One day I was sitting on the sofa and my husband was talking to me, Pranav was somewhere around. I said something and Vijay started to laugh. Pranav appeared and expressed, 'First time wife is making husband happy.'
hmmm Shivani, Kids are observing us so much. I can imagine Pranav saying all this.
Theory of "more you love, more fights" makes me happy :-)
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